Ceremony Cost Range: $100 to $2,500+ CEREMONY Black Dog Photo, Co. ? CEREMONY Questions Questions to ask Officiants: 1. Will you give a speech/sermon? Yes No 2. Will we be able to read it before the ceremony? Yes No 3. Can we choose the readings? Yes No 4. Will you perform the marriage at the venue of our choice? Yes No 5. Do you have sample vow wordings? Yes No 6. Do you require pre-marital counseling? Yes No 7. Will you attend the rehearsal? Yes No Questions to ask ceremony venues: 1. May we bring in our own Officiant? Yes No 2. Do you have a bridal suite? Yes No 3. Are there any restrictions for decorations, vendors, or music? Yes No 4. Is there a dress code? Yes No Questions to ask Musicians: 1. Can I choose my songs? Yes No 2. What instruments do you offer? 3. Will you be the performer the day-of? Yes No 4. How far in advance should I book? Notes: make sure you know of any guidelines before purchasing your dress. Make sure that every detail of your ceremony is planned and executed to unforgettable perfection by asking these important questions. Ceremony PLANNING YOUR FIND A LOCAL CEREMONY VENUE ON PAGE 42 FINDING AN OFFICIANT The ceremony is the most meaningful part of the wedding. Make sure it’s sentimental – and more importantly, legal! – by finding the perfect Officiant. LEGALITY The most important step in choosing an Officiant is making sure they’re legally allowed to marry you. In Ohio, ministers ordained online must register with the Secretary of State’s office for a marriage to be legally performed. It’s important to ask to see both proof of ordainment and regis- tration. Some religious leaders are willing to conduct weddings outside of the church. Ask him or her what their regulations are and if they’re willing and available. A PERSONAL TOUCH You should choose an Officiant you feel comfortable around and who is a good public speaker. Someone who knows you well is always best, as they can add per- sonal touches that a stranger can’t. You should also consider asking someone you admire. Whether they have a successful 25 year marriage or a strong moral compass, they’ll be able to impart great advice. GATHER OPINIONS You can search reputable sourc- es, check out, magazines, bridal shows, and ask fam- ily and friends for refer- rals to find your Offici- ant. Ask to see videos of previous weddings and talk to anyone you know who has been to a wedding where this person officiated. POINTS TO DISCUSS Go over sample wordings and the order of the ceremony, such unity ceremonies, readings, and musical interludes. Ask if they have suggestions for readings and any sample vows you can refer to when writing your own. Find more local vendors at TodaysBride.com 36 | TODAY'S BRIDE +12 MONTHS UNTIL "I DO"