b"CEREMONYtoo muchawesomenessFINDING AN OFFICIANTThe ceremony is the most meaningful part of the wedding. Make sure its sentimentaland more importantly, legal!by finding the perfect Officiant.LEGALITYThe most important step in choosing an Officiant is making sure theyre le-gallyallowedtomarryyou.InOhio, ministers ordained online must regis-ter with the Secretary of States office for a marriage to be legally performed. Its important to ask to see both proof of ordainment and registration. Some religious leaders are willing to conduct weddingsoutsideofthechurch.Ask him or her what their regulations are and if theyre willing and available.A PERSONAL TOUCHYou should choose an Officiant you feel comfortable around and who is a good public speaker. Someone who knows you well is always best, as they can add personal touches that a stranger cant. You should also consider asking someone you admire. Whether they have a successful 25 year marriage or a strong moral compass, theyll be able to im-part great advice.GATHER OPINIONSYou can search reputable sources, check out magazines, visit bridal shows, and ask family and friends for referrals to find your Officiant. Ask to see videos of previous weddings and talk to anyone you know who has been to a wedding where this person officiated.POINTS TO DISCUSSGo over sample wordings and the order of the ceremony, such as unity cer-emonies, readings, and musical interludes. Ask if they have suggestions for readings and any sample vows you can refer to when writing your own. TELL VENDORS YOU SAW THEIR AD INTODAY'S BRIDE | 3534 35"