b'WEDDING STATIONERYYou,yourfianc,andbothsetsofparentsshouldsitdowntostart compiling a guest list about 12 months before your wedding date and finalize it around 6-7 months out. Comprising a guest list is the number one thing couples disagree about when planning their wedding, so if you start to argue, check out these questions and answers for a solution.Who should get a plus-one?Problems When it comes to navigating the difficult plus-one situation, remember a plus-one is a mustforanyonewhoismarried,engaged,orinalong-termrelationship.Itsalso &Solutions considerate to extend a plus-one to a single friend who wont have any other friends attending the wedding. What if someone doesnt RSVP by the date on the invitation?One of the most frustrating things you can encounter on this wedding planning journey is when someone doesnt RSVP. Whoevers list the person falls underi.e. your parents, yours, your fiancs, or your fiancs parentsshould be the party responsible for calling them. Texting is a faux pas when it comes to asking for RSVPs, but it really depends on your relationship with that person. If its a friend, you can probably text. Someone from work, family, or family friends should be asked in-person or via phone call.How do I make it clear I dont want children at the wedding?Whenitcomestoinvitingchildren,youshouldneverputNoChildrenorAdult Reception Only on a wedding invitation. Instead, pre-write the invited guests names on their RSVP card so theyll know exactly who is invited. Or, put a line beneath their name on the RSVP card with _____/2 so they know that two people are invited and can fill in how many will be there.What do I do if our list starts to get too long?Its helpful to have an A-list and B-list (although you should never inform your guests of their status!) Send your first round of save-the-dates to your A-list only. If guests let Blanche Paperie you know they cant make it, extend invitations to B-list guests. TELL VENDORS YOU SAW THEIR AD INTODAYS BRIDE | 6564 65'