Start Early Aim to make a decision at least one month before the wedding — definite- ly more if you’re trying to coordinate with the mother-of-the-groom or others in the wedding party. Be sure to allow even more time for a gown that requires special ordering. Every manufacturer is different, but a good rule of thumb is to allot 12 to 16 weeks for a special order. Color Cohesive The key thing to remember is that you’ll want to complement (and not clash with) the day’s color scheme. You shouldn’t match the bridal party so much that someone mistakes you for the Maid-of-Honor, but you shouldn’t look like a wedding crasher, either. Con- sider choosing a gown in the same pal- ette as the bridal party (such as, wearing a plum-colored gown if the bridesmaids are in lilac or lavender). Traditionally, you’d want to avoid anything in white, ivory, champagne, and red. However, as these are becoming more acceptable as traditions shift, keep that in mind as you shop is always key. Metallics, navy, and jewel tones are all beautiful and safe bets for mothers’ attire, but if you have concerns, be sure to ask the soon- to-be-weds for their input. Well-Coordinated Typically, the mother-of-the-bride picks out her dress first, setting the tone for what the mother-of-the-groom will wear. You and your future in-law don’t have to match, but you should make sure your looks don’t conflict. Be sure to discuss sleeve and hem lengths, necklines, colors, and styles with each other before shopping. If you already get along well, you may even want to go shopping together. Alterna- tively, the bride could go shopping with each of you and relay any guidelines. ❤ 1 & 2. Mac Duggal - Style 80628R 3. Montage by Mon Cheri - Style 117D74 4. Montage by Mon Cheri - Style 116D31 5. Montage by Mon Cheri - Style 117D71 6. Cameron Blake by Mon Cheri - Style 117619 7. Cameron Blake by Mon Cheri - Style 78345 all gowns are available at Vera’s Ladies Apparel 4 6 5 7 20 | TODAY’S BRIDE READ MORE AT TODAYSBRIDE.COM