1 YEAR Begin guest list 4-6 MONTHS Order invitations 6-9 MONTHS Finalize guest list 2 WEEKS Call guests who have not responded Emphasis on call: A phone call is the polite way to obtain a response from your guest. Avoid using text or email. 8 WEEKS Mail invitations to out-of-town guests 9 MONTHS Mail save-the-dates Note: Do not send a save-the-date to anyone who you might not extend an invite to. 6 WEEKS Mail invitations to local guests 10-12 MONTHS Begin shopping and order save-the-date cards THE BIG EVENT 4 WEEKS Mail thank you notes Inthemail When it comes to mailing wedding invitations, etiquette requires invites to be sent out at least eight weeks prior to the wedding for out-of-town guests; for local guests, mail six weeks in advance. Here are some other time frames to consider: 38 | TODAY’S BRIDE READ MORE AT TODAYSBRIDE.COM